Last night and today have been a huge whirlwind ride for us!!!
We received some videos from our adoption agency of children that had been identified as special needs (all clients from our agency get them). We opened the videos just to see the kids not expecting to find one that we would be interested in pursuing. Wrong...one adorable little girl caught our eye, can't say too much to protect her identity, but she had very minor (if any real) special needs.
This morning we reviewed her medical and were even more surprised, some minor issues, but no major red flags. Got a little excited, but a little scared too. This was not exactly the type of child we had set out to adopt, but we were both seriously considering moving forward and put a call in to our agency to get a couple final questions answered. Of course our new I800A has not been translated and sent to Bulgaria, so we are not officially "paperwork ready" as required for these special needs referrals. Didn't know what we would have to do for that, plus needing to update paperwork to accept a child with these needs.
We found out this afternoon from our agency that another family (from a different agency and possibly different country) had seen this child's information earlier on the MOJ website, and had already requested her and their request was accepted, so she is no longer available to us. The family only had basic information published on the MOJ website - which is about 3 lines of information, no pictures, or video so there is a chance they would not move forward. But the video and pictures are what convinced us, so we are sure they will continue. We are sad for us, but happy that she has found a home.
So, we go back to waiting for our referral....and maybe paying a little closer attention to the "special needs" list of available children!